Back in September I set myself a set of goals in order to make some changes in my life.
Unfortunately I have fallen very short with almost all of my goals, so much so that I decided to abandon them at the beginning of the year. I spent some time reassessing my situation and trying to work out where I went wrong.
How Did I Do?
I have set up my planner and have almost set up my GTD system. However I haven’t been using them as much as I’d have liked recently.
Since the beginning of the year I have read a total of 13 books so I have managed to keep up with this.
Again this is a 50/50 win. We haven’t been having as many date night away from home or our movie nights but the counselling is going well.
Health and Fitness
The less said about this the better. I haven’t reach my target weight, nor have I begun any kind of exercise routine.
This is one area where I have actually made some progress. I’ve been trying to post regularly and have begun to look into ways to monetise by blog.
I have also been looking at some possible jobs in my local area which fit in with my family life so all in all I would say this was an area that I am winning in.
Again, I have made some progress on my goals for this area. I have been giving blood as often as I can and have been helping others where possible too.
The only thing remaining is to make a decision regarding the Dyspraxia Foundation role.
Things haven’t worked out too well in this area. I have made some moves towards reaching my goals but unfortunately they haven’t quite gone to plan.
Not gone quite as well as planned due to some unforeseen expenses. However we have some money saved some I’m not counting it as a loss just yet.
There is no way to put this other than to say that this area has been a total fail. That said I have got some new bedding, towels and paint for our bedroom so I did make some effort.
As far as the clutter goes, it’s still there smirking at me with all it’s friends – I’m blaming Christmas and birthdays for it all!
As many mums will tell you, taking care of yourself is usually low on the priority list. Well, this mum is no different. No matter how hard I try to find regular time for myself I usually end up cleaning up after the kids or something equally as mundane.
It’s easy to see where my priorities lie. I have managed to book a family holiday and had an amazing time for my 40th birthday.
We have also had some amazing family fun so overall this area is on track.
Where Did I Go Wrong?
After giving it some thought I think my main issue is trying to do too much in one go. It’s also pretty easy to see, after analysing my wins, where my priorities and focus lie. I love reading and writing so any goals relating to these areas are easy for me to reach. Whereas, things like exercise and eating healthily, aren’t things I overly enjoy (although I love the results) so I find goals in these areas harder to focus on.
I’m not giving up on my goals just yet, although I will be making some changes. I’m planning on reducing the number of goals I aim for within each area and will be focusing on the goals I find harder more often.
I will be back very soon with more information on my goals for the next 6 months so watch this space.
Thanks for reading, until next time.